To look at the average dad we’re not a very impressive sight. In many cases we’ve completely lost touch with the latest clothing styles, opting to wear (for some unknown reason) white socks with our sandals and shorts at summer picnics. The legs exposed underneath those shorts haven’t seen the light of day since last summer. We’re losing the aging battle ungracefully. You know what I’m talking about. The hairline is receding. The “six pack” has turned into a “keg”. We can’t touch our toes (in some cases we can’t see our toes) anymore. We’re still playing in pick-up basketball leagues trying to re-live the glory days, but we shouldn’t be. And if all that isn’t enough, many of us have been reduced to driving a mini-van! You know who you are.
But, you know something, dad? Despite all that, the words of Solomon written over 3,000 years ago are more true than ever…”…”the glory of children are their fathers.” – Pr. 17:6b. Every dad gets undeserved admiration from his kids the moment they enter this world. They are hard wired to believe that we are bigger than life, that there is nothing that we can’t do. They look for opportunities to brag on dad, like the three boys that were having a “whose got the best dad” conversation on the playground. The
first boy said, “My dad scribbles a few words on a piece of paper, calls it a poem and they pay him $50.” The second boy said, “That’s nothing! My dad scribbles a few words on a piece of paper, calls it a song and they pay him $100!” The third boy smile confidently and proclaimed, “I’ve got you both beat. My dad writes a few words on a piece of paper, calls it a sermon and it takes 8
guys to collect all the money!”
We don’t have to teach that to our kids. And because of that, we start out life with an unbelievable advantage. We can either build on that advantage or we can squander that advantage. When we choose to build on that, our children will grow up in life with a strong and heavy ballast, steadied and strengthened to tackle life head on with all of it’s challenges. When we squander it, our
kids move into their lives with a great deficit. And instead of being steadied and confident, their souls are weightless. As a result,
they spend the rest of their lives trying to compensate for and overcome that deficit.
What about it, dad? What are you doing with that God given advantage? If you’re looking for some great advice on how to build on that advantage, consider the counsel of the greatest dad of all time, our heavenly Father. It’s found in a single verse in the New Testament. Ephesians 6:4 says, “Fathers, don’t exasperate your children by coming down hard on them. Take them by the hand and lead them in the way of the Master.” (The Message).